Baby Girl's Surgery Status
I'm not even sure if I shared on this blog but for now there will be no surgery to correct BG's craniosynostosis. The final expert surgeon's opinion was that it was not necessary now, and probably not ever. We never got a definite "yes you have to do this" so we are taking a wait and see approach. We need to see her language develop and her head continue to grow. So far, so good. And a relief.
Job Situation
Well, I am back to working full time. I went on two job interviews across the country in Virginia (DC and Richmond) and got offers from both. I had a request to go interview two other places. I had a local interview and got that offer. And ultimately.... I went back to my old job! They asked me back and it really made the most sense. We don't have to move, we don't have to (short) sell our house, etc. And I just wasn't excited about the other local offer and didn't want to move out of my current specialty area. My old company offered me an hourly rate equal to my old salary but without benefits. I asked for more money to help offset the benefits and they went for it. They will potentially convert me back to salary and benefits if they make a partnering deal. It is extremely risky in terms of stability, but luckily the companies I turned down told me to let them know if anything changes. I have found that a consultant I used is an EXTREMELY good connection. Everyone knows him and respects him and he says good things about me. I intend to keep him as my BFF forever.
It was hard to transition back to work. I thought I would have a terrible first week away from BG. The first day was very hard but I found that I really liked being back to work. My work is fulfilling to me and I really have to work. After the first day it has gotten easier but I still do really miss my time with her. I really wish I could work part time but that doesn't exist in my industry. But she loves having grandma come over and she is always happy to see me after work.
So as you can see, things are looking up for us after a tough start to the year. I think I've already reached my yearly allotment of tears between the layoff, my grandma, and the biggest one - BG's birth defect diagnosis. But in reality, I have SO much to be thankful for. Every day I see an awesome kid running (yes, actually running) around my house, babbling away, learning, growing, and generally being awesome. I just celebrated 8 years of marriage yesterday with my wonderful husband. I have a fulfilling career that provides for us. Through my layoff I learned that my work experience is in demand and that makes me feel a lot better about my still unstable job.
I hope there are still a few people reading and I am sorry I have been away so long. I was travelling so much, stressing so much, planning a potential move, etc etc. Luckily we are trying to settle in again. In honor of BG's birthday - IN JUST 8 DAYS - we are going to visit family and friends in Minnesota for two whole weeks. We'll have her party at hubby's parents' farm. We're so excited to go and relax for a while!
So I'll be back soon and I hope you are all doing well. Take care of yourselves and have a great summer!
Tuesday, June 28, 2011
Wednesday, June 8, 2011
Help for Another Blogger?
Do you know about Jenneper?
Because if you don't, then you should. She has, without a doubt, the funniest blog I have ever read. When I found her blog I had to go back to the beginning just so I didn't miss a single post. She even wrote for the magazine Redbook for a while.
Unfortunately, things haven't been so funny around Jenneper's blog lately. For quite a while actually. After a FET she became pregnant with identical twin girls. During the pregnancy they learned that one baby was not growing as well and was much too small and everyone was very worried about her. They tried to strike a balance to keep the babies in to give them both the best chance at survival. Shortly before their scheduled c-section at 32 weeks the bigger baby died suddenly and so she was born still. Nobody had been very worried about her.
The tiny baby, Ainsley, survived but is still in the NICU five months later and is facing another 2-3 months. Can you imagine not even taking your baby home for 8 months?!
Anyway, I could go on and on but you could go to her blog and read their story. But now they are balancing two full time jobs, their 2 year old daughter, and driving back and forth to the hospital to spend time with Ainsley. Obviously there are medical bills, gas costs, parking, etc etc.
I thought I would appeal to all 3.31 of my readers to see if you might be interested to help. If so, follow this link to a post by her friend. There is a paypal option to send a donation.
If nothing else, perhaps you can laugh while you catch up on her posts of less stressful times and then offer them some words of encouragement.
That's it. I have been wanting to post about some more of my employment drama but my grandmother passed away this morning (after a long life and a very long period of declining health) and so there is travelling and such in my future. I'll be back... eventually.
Because if you don't, then you should. She has, without a doubt, the funniest blog I have ever read. When I found her blog I had to go back to the beginning just so I didn't miss a single post. She even wrote for the magazine Redbook for a while.
Unfortunately, things haven't been so funny around Jenneper's blog lately. For quite a while actually. After a FET she became pregnant with identical twin girls. During the pregnancy they learned that one baby was not growing as well and was much too small and everyone was very worried about her. They tried to strike a balance to keep the babies in to give them both the best chance at survival. Shortly before their scheduled c-section at 32 weeks the bigger baby died suddenly and so she was born still. Nobody had been very worried about her.
The tiny baby, Ainsley, survived but is still in the NICU five months later and is facing another 2-3 months. Can you imagine not even taking your baby home for 8 months?!
Anyway, I could go on and on but you could go to her blog and read their story. But now they are balancing two full time jobs, their 2 year old daughter, and driving back and forth to the hospital to spend time with Ainsley. Obviously there are medical bills, gas costs, parking, etc etc.
I thought I would appeal to all 3.31 of my readers to see if you might be interested to help. If so, follow this link to a post by her friend. There is a paypal option to send a donation.
If nothing else, perhaps you can laugh while you catch up on her posts of less stressful times and then offer them some words of encouragement.
That's it. I have been wanting to post about some more of my employment drama but my grandmother passed away this morning (after a long life and a very long period of declining health) and so there is travelling and such in my future. I'll be back... eventually.
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